AND Delivered

Well, lookie what showed up in the post today… yep, my officially official divorce paperwork.

As said last post, i found on the web that the case was closed and even downloaded the scanned file.  Still, there was this tickle that things weren’t quite done yet.

I had true relief when the papers finally showed up… and a loud “Whoop!!” of joy.

Yeah, there’s still some loose ends to tie up–selling the house being a biggie.  But they’re just loose ends.  Not the frayed fragments of string strewn across the corners of my life.

The relief hasn’t been like a light switch turned on.  Rather, it’s been a slow de-sludging of goo from my life.  It will take time to totally clean myself off.  But today was a big step forward.

Thanks to all of you for your kind words and support.  I could’ve done it without you…but it would have been much harder and lonelier.  A heartfelt thanks!



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8 Responses to “AND Delivered”

  1. silverstar98121 Says:

    Glad to hear that piece is over. Now on to bigger and better things.

  2. Stephanie of Stopbouncing Says:

    And I think it’s safe to exhale now.

  3. hisqueen Says:

    It does take time to remove all the goo but just remember to take deep cleansing breaths when the loose ends start giving you a headache. They will only be temporary.
    Go out this weekend and celebrate. Try not to sit at home and be too lonely.
    I think if most of us were anywhere near you we would give you big smiles and hugs. so here are mine “Hug” “Big Smile”

  4. Megan Says:

    So, I did a little online snooping. Hope you don’t mind. Your judge was the same one that handled my parents’ divorce in 1996. Small world.

  5. daisyfae Says:

    Yipppeeee! So… now what?

  6. nursemyra Says:

    bet you’ve got a spring in your step though…..

  7. beaverboosh Says:

    Best of luck with your new found freedom! Enjoy!

  8. leavingevangeline Says:

    Congrats! 🙂

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