Well, the subject line is really three parts of an evening, but it sounds fun so I left it like that.
Spent a delightfully delicious evening with Dear Friend this Saturday. A chance to get out and spend time not thinking about unpacking boxes (yes, still and slowly), work idiots (unless there’s a humorous story to be told…which there were), or other ugly stuff like divorce. Just some relaxing (and, at times, exhilarating) moments together.
On Dear Friend’s recommendation and my hearty endorsement, we went to a downtown restaurant that serves Thai food… and one of our favorites – – raw bait sushi! A bottle of whine wine, a yummy appetizer, and then a decision on what to eat.
Liking variety…and quantity…in our sushi, and enjoying sharing with each other, we settled on the Sushi Armada! If you’ve not been to a sushi bar, one of the key elements of preparing sushi is the presentation. Sometimes, with especially good sushi chefs, it gets downright artistic. One serving option, when there are multiple people wanting to share, is the sushi boat. Knowing our limits, we did stick with the sushi boat for 2, although the boat for 4 and 8 looked pretty damned tempting.

the sushi armada arrives
Knowing our limits, we did stick with the sushi boat for 2, although the boat for 4 and 8 looked pretty damned tempting.
Afterwards, we went to a local outdoor park to ice skate. Small-ish as ice skating rinks go, but for an outside venue, it was pretty nice.

honest - there were people there that night
No, I’m not an ice skater. The last time I was on skates was some 20-plus years ago. Dear Friend was similarly skilled, but had only been on hiatus from skating for a mere 15 or so years. But, neither of us want to watch the world go by just sitting on a couch. We need to participate in life, even if there’s a chance it will be painful (you did know that ice is awfully damn hard if you fall on it, yes?). But, even with the firm dedication to skate, fears grew as to our abilities to stay upright on the ice and not break anything… well, anything crucial.
While we were lacing up our rented skates, the management cleared the rink so they could Zamboni it (can that be used as a verb?) and have a laser light show. The lights went down and the time honored, dulcet tones of Mannheim Steamroller Christmas tunes echoed out over the speaker system, accompanied by a display of multi-colored laser pageantry. The music? A bit overdone. The lasers? Not too creatively matched to the music. But the combination of the two, along with a shared moment with Dear Friend, made it wonderful. Even better was that, just as we got there, it started to snow lightly. What was really cool about that (pun not intended, but go wild with it if you want) – and I wished I had my camera – was the effect the snowflakes had as they drifted through the laser beams. The flakes would sparkle and flare as the lights reflected off each crystalline arm. A fireworks show in microcosm.
We didn’t want it to end…
…mostly because that would mean we’d have to ‘put up or shut up’ and actually ice skate.
Looking a bit like geriatric hip replacement patients, we shuffled along to the entry to the rink. Stepping out onto the ice, we immediately grabbed the railing next to us, knocking small children and the aged aside in our desire to stay upright while perched on a thin piece of metal on both feet. Once, twice, thrice around the thankfully small rink, all the while hanging on for dear life. Then, part way through the third go ‘round, we dared to let go of the railing and skated on our own… small children, snails, and sloths passing us by. Surviving a turn like that, we both heartily agreed it was time for a hot chocolate break!
By this time, the snow was turning to sleet making the walk over to the concession stand seem more dangerous than the ice rink itself. But we made it and had a wonderfully tasty and hot cup of cocoa (and, no, I won’t mention the fact that Dear Friend totally forgot to bring the flask of Bailey’s she’d promised to bring along… nope, won’t mention how much smoother that hot chocolate would have tasted… how much more it would have warmed our bellies in the cold sleet… nope, just won’t mention that at all! I’m too nice a guy….).
Back out to the ice again and another 8 or so spins around the rink, our confidence and abilities bolstered by staying vertical. A quick break to sit in front of a fire pit the park had going, then back out for a third time on the ice.
We could tell it was time to quit as both of us had near spills, primarily from leg muscles (still sore today) giving up their heroic efforts to keep us upright. Well, that coupled with the sight of blood on the ice… looked like a hockey game had been held there.
Back to Dear Friend’s home, where we made our own cocoa…yes, with the Bailey’s this time…and commiseration on a wonderful evening and a promise to keep participating together in what life has to offer…. Snow skiing may be next.
All in all, a wondrously fun evening.
…and, amazingly, neither of us fell on the ice that evening…
Tags: Dear Friend, fun with lasers, ice skating for fun and profit, life, sushi armada
December 23, 2008 at 02:18 |
I went ice skating tonight, too. Walked on the icy streets of Seattle to the pizza parlor a couple blocks away. Damn fun hanging on to my walker and trying not to fall. OK that was enough of an outing for me.
Sounds like you had fun. Bailey’s sounds good in cocoa, but I prefer peppermint schnappes.
December 23, 2008 at 05:03 |
Sounds a treat, I’m jealous, always wanted a white Christmas, makes the egg nog and roaring log fire imagery of traditional Christmas decor seem more relevant. It’s a sunny 21 degrees here today, with a light SE breeze. We’ve settled for a trip to the beach, a dip in the icy cold Atlantic, followed by fish on the coals for our Christmas fare. MD is however deader than dead if he forgets the G and T …
December 23, 2008 at 09:15 |
Mannheim Steamroller + multi-colored laser pageantry + bong hits = 1977.
December 23, 2008 at 09:32 |
ahhh, “Sushi Armada”… sounds tasty.
I’m glad that you’re finding FUN EXCITING things to do to stay occupied and that DF is along for the ride.
Happy Holidays?
December 23, 2008 at 12:39 |
i’m with the unbearable banishment – STONER CITY, man…. i’ve always wanted to pirate a zamboni. that would be one on my bucket list!
December 23, 2008 at 15:13 |
Didn’t the sushi armada sink in a storm in the English Channel in 1588?
December 23, 2008 at 18:38 |
silverstar – *snort* too funny… i hear the NW US of A is getting quite snow bound. glad you didn’t fall on your ass. peppermint schnappes? got it… that’ll be the next go round.
parenthesis – i’d be happy to mail you some snow. i think i have a spare box around here from the move. so, does this mean you get snow in July? or does SA get any snow other than in the mountains? (and i can mail some G and T with the snow, too!)
t.u.b. – really? i didn’t know mannheim steamroller was around back then. well, i vaguely recall hearing something like that through the slats of my crib – – aw, hell, who’m i kidding… everyone here knows i’m mumblety-two.
stephanie – happy holidays. a lot of transition still to go. but, with friends out there in interweb land, friends here like DF and others, and some of the family? i’ll make it.
daisyfae – coolness! i’m off to the web. i’m sure i can google up a site that can teach me how to hotwire a zamboni… i can see it now, cruising down main street in the Wilds…
unclekeith – no, but close… it was the Wasabi Straights, just a bit south of the English Channel. after that, the English didn’t have to worry about raw fish and were free to make the world safe for deep fried fish and chips.
December 24, 2008 at 01:46 |
SA ain’t so hot on the snow, no. There are small patches of turf that do get a few flakes – Lesotho, and such, but as a rule, no. We’ve had one or two isolated snow storms over the years, but even then the snow is a bit thin on the ground, a couple of snow men and the rest is slush. Gets cold enough in the Transvaal – 6 below but not enough moisture in the air. I’d love to go sledding wif you …
December 24, 2008 at 04:16 |
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December 24, 2008 at 21:47 |
that sounds wonderful. merry xmas to you my friend xx
December 26, 2008 at 14:48 |
Snow skiing, eh? I recommend cross country. Downhill can get you killed…or, at least, seriously broken.
You paint quite a vivid picture. Skating outdoors has always been kind of special. I’ve heard stories of skating on the Rideau Canal in Ottawa that remind me of Hans Christian Andersen’s “Hans Brinker – or The Silver Skates”. As a boy, we lived on a lake shore in Ontario and as soon as there was ice out from shore about 100 feet or so, we could go skating up and down, almost for miles. We’d, of course, play hockey. I don’t think we ever lost a puck into the open water, but I do recall laying on the edge of the ice on my belly and taking long drinks of ice cold lake water.
Happy holidays gnukid.